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Choosing your doula is a three-way venture. With three people asking questions, making assessments, and choosing.\u00a0\u00a0 The mother is usually looking for a doula who exhibits confidence, and skill and promotes trust.\u00a0 The partner is usually looking for experience, mood, and good energy as they will be spending the most time with the doula. And the doula, who is looking for an educated client, who knows what they desire, and a couple that would be a healthy environment to work with,\u00a0 <\/b><\/p>\n
Questions you or your partner may ask a doula:<\/b><\/p>\n Questions doulas ask at an interview:<\/b><\/p>\n Above all, do you connect?\u00a0 A bond with your doula might mean more than her skill set depending on your unique situation.\u00a0 But no matter what, you might be spending HOURS with her\/him, so it’s important to enjoy their company.\u00a0 You should feel that the doula will be able to work collaboratively with your birth team. You should be confident in her skill set and ability to support you. And you should be able to trust her\/him to listen to you, respect your choices, and help you advocate for yourself.\u00a0 <\/b><\/p>\n How to Find a Doula<\/b><\/p>\n\n
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