Preparing Your Pets To Bring a Newborn Home
Bringing your newborn home is a major life change for everyone in the household, including your pets. With a little preparation, the transition can be smoother and safer for both your fur baby and your human one.
In Your 3rd Trimester
- Schedule vet and grooming appointments before 37 weeks. Ensure your pet is in good health, clean, and has clipped nails before the baby arrives. Consider lining up a dog walker or pet daycare during delivery and early postpartum so you can focus on bonding with your baby.
- Review your pet’s toys. Many baby toys resemble pet toys (soft, plush, squeaky), so remove anything that may confuse the baby before it comes home.
- Use baby gates and deterrents. Set up baby gates early to block off certain rooms. For cats, use rolled-up tape or aluminum foil to keep them off furniture or surfaces like the crib or changing table.
- Don’t worry about old myths. The idea that cats “steal a baby’s soul” is a myth. However, babies do mimic the breathing of animals nearby, and cat hair may end up in a baby’s mouth, so it’s smart to discourage close crib contact.
- Seek professional training if needed. For pets with anxiety or behavioral concerns (e.g., jumping, nibbling, territory guarding), consult a pet trainer. Some may recommend desensitizing techniques such as playing crying baby sounds or using pheromone diffusers. Spaying or neutering may also help promote calmness and reduce aggression.
When Baby Comes Home
- Introduce your pet to the baby’s scent first. Use the baby’s hat or blanket from the hospital to let your pet sniff and get familiar with the new scent.
- For territorial pets, start in neutral space. Consider meeting in a neutral location (driveway, front yard) can ease anxiety. Then isolate your pet with the baby’s blanket while you re-enter the house. After play or exercise, calmly reintroduce the pet and baby at home under supervision.
- Create a positive environment. Use treats, toys, and praise to reinforce good behavior. Consider feline pheromone diffusers like Feliway for anxious cats.
- Maintain routines. Regular walks and playtime are essential for your pet’s emotional and physical health. Hire help if needed during the early postpartum weeks.
- Supervise at all times. Never leave a newborn alone with a pet, no matter how trusted. Use a crate or gated area for safe separation.
Once Your Baby Is Mobile
- Feeding safety. Remove pet food when not in use to avoid food guarding behaviors. Monitor all feeding times and keep your baby away from pet bowls.
- Distinguish baby vs. pet toys. Try to keep them separate to avoid confusion, though expect some overlap. Supervise all interactions.
- Create safe zones for both. Baby gates, open crate doors, and “no baby allowed” spaces for pets help reduce stress. Toddlers should be taught to respect the pet’s space, including not entering the crate.
- Model calm, nurturing behavior. Your energy matters. Pets and babies take cues from your tone and mood. Praise gentle interactions and correct inappropriate behaviors with consistency.
The Benefits of Growing Up with Pets
Children with pets learn compassion, responsibility, and empathy. Studies show early exposure to pets can reduce the risk of allergies and strengthen the immune system:
- NIH: Pets & Children’s Health
- AAP Journal: Pets, Allergies, and Asthma
With a little planning and patience, your growing family can thrive, fur and all.
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